I find it aggravating that I can’t seem to cross particular
finish lines in my life. Myself as judge, I can’t seem to “arrive” at the
winner’s circle of wife, mother, daughter, size 8, fulfilled career, organized
home, organized family. Once, my eldest son was winning a relay race. He was so
far ahead of his competitors that he was practically running alone. However,
about 30 feet from the finish line, he jogged off the field. The people in the
stands grew quiet trying to figure out why, he wasn’t injured, no signs of
distress. Then, we realized he mistook a line on the track as the finish line
and thought he was done. We began yelling “Get back on!” and waving our hands
as if we could scoot him back on the field, encouraging him to continue.
Thankfully, he realized what happened and hopped back on to finally cross the
finish line.
Unlike the fixed finish line my son was running towards, I often
feel mine keep moving away from me. Sometimes I get so discouraged I’d like to just
trot off the field and call it done. However, God continues to encourage me
forward. If I had a say in the matter, I’d be for crossing those winning lines as
soon as possible so as to enjoy the benefits of the winner’s circle with no further
delay! So, in other words, I am all
about the destination and less about the race. Strangely, God is all about the race.
All my logic knows I will never cross the finish line exactly
when and how I’d like to. Unfortunately, it’s that combination of destination
and judgment where my thoughts tend to camp throughout the day. Of course, that’s
the same place where insecurity resides, and I hate to admit it, but I spend
far too many minutes of the day thinking about it. I seem to be in a race with
myself.
Running a long race takes patience and perseverance. Unfortunately,
when those traits were being passed out in heaven, I probably grew impatient with
the line and decided to not persevere…
If learning patience and perseverance are God-delivered test
(which, I fear they are), I also fear He keeps retesting while I continue
failing. And, I can’t deny I contemplate with alarm He may have to continue to
test me until …oh, dear, I don’t know when. This may be one of those life
lessons that I learn by painfully small increments; progress will be measured
in centimeters.
For a long time I considered the last testing of Jesus as
described in Matthew 4 all about greed, but I realize now—my take on it, anyway—is
it’s all about patience and perseverance. The devil offered him all splendors
in all the lands, provided he’d switch his allegiance. The more I camp on this
test, the more I disagree with my former assumption. I used to dismiss it to
thinking the devil really didn’t understand Jesus like the rest of us did if he
thought appealing to his greedy side for self-gain would be productive. The
Jesus we know in the bible is never described as a person who could be bought
with silver and gold. But maybe, it wasn’t that for which He was being
tested. Maybe, it was patience and perseverance.
If you, say, loved people so much that you cried their
tears, experienced their pain, provided healing miracles for those who sought you out, wouldn’t it be much more
a temptation if you could gain power NOW, resources NOW, access NOW to all
those whom you could help? Could the thought of, “Imagine all those I could
help right now if I simply claimed my Godhood?” cause you to pause? Jesus could
have whatever he wanted and he didn’t need to worship the devil for it. Jesus
could have chosen then and there to draw his own finish line and thereby administering
help to the needy --and avoiding personal torture and death by achieving somewhat
of the same (more immediate) ends but by different (and far less uncomfortable)
means. That’s what Jesus could have done had he simply became master over his
own finish line. But, instead of appealing to a personal agenda, He appealed to
His Father's agenda—where patience and perseverance
could not be avoided. He had to be patient for the events to unfold that
needed to unfold on behalf of our welfare, and, He needed to persevere more
than we could ever imagine doing so. Added to that, before reappearing to the masses, He even had to suffer the temporary
judgment and disappointment from those who loved him while they considered he’d perhaps failed
his mission!
Of course, Jesus, being perfect, and our example of
perfection, did not falter. Not once. But I sure do. I falter every day when my
expectations of life seem to collide with the will of My Father. After all, He
tells me that the importance of my life is not about my arriving at all my
finish lines, but about Him continuing
the good works which He began in me, even after He calls me home. So, really,
the only race I’m running is the one of patience and perseverance, not
perfection! Everything else is simply distracting me while I run.
TB